I feel like a pervert whenever I try to talk about sex.
Hi Rosie, my wife and I have been married for ten years, and our relationship is pretty good in all other areas. About six months ago, I sugges... View moreI feel like a pervert whenever I try to talk about sex.
Hi Rosie, my wife and I have been married for ten years, and our relationship is pretty good in all other areas. About six months ago, I suggested that we explore the non-monogamy, or swinger lifestyle. She was more on board than I thought she would be, and we subsequently watched some YouTube videos and tried to educate ourselves further. Since this exciting start, however, we have struggled to have further conversations; when I suggest visiting a swinger club or even when I try to share fantasies, my wife isn't very receptive, and I am worried I am starting to sound like a pervert! I feel like she judges me when I share my thoughts with her, and I struggle to understand how she feels about it, as she is not forthcoming whenever I try to talk about sex with her. I am worried that I sound like a pervert whenever I even try to talk about sex. I don't know what to do! - Couple from California.
