20 TOP TIPS TO ATTRACT GENUINE SWINGERS TO YOUR SWINGER DATING PROFILE

20 TOP TIPS TO ATTRACT GENUINE SWINGERS TO YOUR SWINGER DATING PROFILE

Attracting genuine swingers online involves:

• Creating a trustworthy and appealing profile.
• Engaging respectfully with the Community.
• Following best practices for safety and communication.

But what exactly do I mean by this? In this article, 20 Top Tips To Attract Genuine Swingers To Your Swinger Dating Profile, I explain each step and its importance when using online sites to meet those interested in Ethical non-monogamy.

20 Top Tips To Attract Genuine Swingers To Your Swinger Dating Profile

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Here are my TOP TIPS to help you attract genuine swingers:

Create an Authentic Profile. What do I mean by an authentic profile? Here, I am referring to a profile that truly represents who you are and what you are all about. Authentic profiles are 60% swinger information and 40% about you as a person. They include a good mixture of pictures and are not overly explicit. I explain this further in How to Create a Great Swingers Dating Profile.

Honesty and Clarity: Be honest about your interests, boundaries, and relationship status. Clearly state what you are looking for in the swinger lifestyle. If you don’t enjoy something or a particular dynamic, say so. Being honest is so important in the Lifestyle.

Detailed Description: Provide a comprehensive profile that includes your hobbies, interests, and what you enjoy in the Lifestyle. Specific details help others find common ground with you.

Quality Photos: Use clear, high-quality photos that show you and your partner (if applicable). Avoid overly sexual images; instead, focus on friendly and inviting pictures. I always recommend that people use a maximum of 6 photos in their public gallery and only put more ‘adult-natured’ ones in a private gallery. If you are a couple, then have a picture of both of you as your profile picture.

Look On The Correct Sites: You would be surprised how many people waste their time and energy on swinger dating sites that are either fakes, hook-up sites or those with very low user engagement. If you want to find genuine swingers, look for sites that attract genuine users. Sites that require you to make a subscription, become verified, and be more ‘invested’ or engaged with the Community will probably have more genuine users than those that allow you to sign up without making any real effort.

Profile Verification: Participate in any available verification processes. Verified profiles are more trusted in the swinger community. Take steps to become verified; on CNM4US, the verification process takes around 2 minutes.

Consensual Proof: If you’re a couple, provide photos or statements showing mutual consent and interest in the Lifestyle. Pictures of you both in ‘vanilla’ life, for example, on holiday or out for dinner, are great examples of proof that you are a real couple. Also, if you do engage in conversation with other users, ensure that you are both present on the call and is its another couple, ensure that they too are both present.

Engage Respectfully: Take the time to read through other people’s profiles, and when you reach out to them, be sure to address them as they would like to be addressed by using their proper pronouns and also respect their sexuality and who they are looking to play with. You would be surprised by how many messages I have received that have ignored this and sent me messages on the ‘off chance’.

Polite Messaging: Approach others with respect and politeness. Personalized messages that show you’ve read their profile are more effective than generic greetings. Sending a Hey, how are you? is never going to be received well. Instead, find something you like in their profile or have in common and send them a message based on that.

Respect Boundaries: Pay attention to stated boundaries and preferences in other profiles. Respect their limits and preferences in your interactions. Participate in the Community: Don’t hide behind your profile. Show you are a genuine member with valuable contributions to make. Even if you’re new to the scene, you can still ask questions, share your story with others, or even participate in online swinger events such as speed dating!

Join Groups and Forums: Engage in community discussions, join relevant groups, and participate in forums. This helps build your reputation and shows you are an active, contributing member.

Attend Events: If possible, attend swinger events or meetups to build face-to-face connections and enhance your online interactions. If attending an event is not something you feel comfortable with, then attending an online meet-up or swinger meet-and-greet where you can introduce yourself online could be an alternative. Remember, not all events are play parties, and swinger socials are a great way of meeting with people who you have spoken to online.

Safety First: Don’t be afraid to include in your profile safe sex practices that you adhere to or what you expect from other members. This could be in regards to the type of play you enjoy, for example, only engaging in a soft swap or practising safe sex steps.

Private Communication: Use the platform’s messaging systems initially to maintain privacy. Avoid sharing personal contact information until you feel comfortable. Any genuine swingers will understand this, and will also be reluctant to push you to give up your mobile number. Uses of CNM4US can also enjoy audio calls within the platform using the SwingRing feature.

Verify New Contacts: Cross-check information and verify new contacts through video calls or mutual acquaintances in the Community. If other people can vouch for them and leave a verification comment on their profile, then this is a good sign. Having other people leave comments on your profile is a fantastic way of attracting genuine users, too. Even if you haven’t met up and played, if you have been on a vanilla date, or had a group call with another couple, you can still leave a verification that they are who they say they are.

Consistency: Maintain a consistent and respectful presence online. This helps build trust over time. Meeting the right people takes time, but being an engaged member of the Community is also essential to staying consistent with using the site.

Feedback and Reviews: Positive reviews from others in the Community can enhance your profile’s credibility. Engage positively and ask for feedback when appropriate. Think carefully before responding to other people’s posts; if you see something that aggravates you, instead of sharing your thoughts publicly, either block the person so you don’t see their posts or raise it with the website admin and let them deal with it.

Stay Educated: Engaging in conversation broadens your opinions and understanding about why people are in the Lifestyle. Sometimes, learning about why a person chooses to be involved in something when you yourself cannot comprehend it is an enlightening experience. The more we know about how others view the world, the more we can use that to shape our own experience.

Read Resources: Utilize educational materials available on platforms like CNM4US to better understand the nuances of the Lifestyle and improve your interactions. Don’t be overly explicit. One trait that many genuine swingers find unappealing is a person or couple who are overly sexual or explicit in their interactions. Too many explicit pictures, close-up pictures of a person’s genitalia or a profile that is too sexual in nature isn’t going to attract the attention of genuine swingers.

Take Your Time: Building genuine connections takes time. Be patient and persistent in your efforts to find like-minded individuals.

Where Can I Find Genuine Swingers? 

I believe that the world of online swinger dating sites is becoming saturated with users who have little to no understanding of what the Lifestyle entails and, as a result, are becoming over-subscribed with people who are either fantasists or think the Lifestyle offers them easy sex. Essentially, these sites are not delivering you, the genuine user, the experience you deserve! It’s time for a change! Forget fake profiles and one line wonders, CNM4US is for people who share a genuine interest in all aspects of Consensual Non Monogamy. It’s by real swingers for real swingers.

Become a Verified User 

Becoming verified on CNM4US is an easy and quick process—you aren’t required to hold up signs, and your picture won’t be floating around in some unknown email inbox for days. It is well known that going through the verification process wields rewards, and as a verified member on CNM4US, you can expect more access to the site and more interaction with other users:

• Verified users can upload photos and videos.
• Message other members directly, which includes using the SwingRing phone for audio calls.
• Manage their Pages and Groups Create Events.

Complete Your Profile 

You’re the real deal, so make sure your profile demonstrates this! Complete your profile on CNM4US by uploading an avatar image, uploading a cover image and completing your profile. Not sure what to include on your profile? Don’t worry. I wrote this blog article to help you!

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• No more struggling trying to figure out if someone is genuine and wondering whether you are talking to a couple!
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