Member Badges

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By Using this Website Published on August 14, 2023

Member Badges

CNM4US assigns badges to help members find their best matches. Below are images and descriptions of our member badges.

Verified

Upon completing the verification process, the Verified symbol, a blue checkmark beside the member's username, appears automatically.

See Verification to learn more.

TKG Confirmed

ThisKindaGirl (TKG) is a popular vodcaster and lifestyle coach. . She uses her considerable lifestyle experience to coach couples and singles through all aspects of the swinger's lifestyle. If you need some help to get started on your journey, or have hurdles or obstacles to overcome, you should schedule a session with her here.

CNM4US has authorized TKG to assign badges to couples and singles. These badges improve your experience with the lifestyle community by conveying that you are who you say you are! (always a selling point in the lifestyle) TKG can now offer the following badges after a zoom call.

TKG Confirmed: You are who were member profile describes. You've done some work to understand the lifestyle community; you respect boundaries and value communication. This is a branded version of, and upgrade to, the Community Confirmed badge.
Couples Confirmed: Do you want other member's do know that you are a couple and that you are both on the same page? This is the badge for you. TKG can assign this badge to your profile.
Hall Pass: Many couples in the lifestyle love men who can play solo, but they hate cheaters. Let people know that you really do have permission from your significant other to play solo.

If you are new and wondering how to get established lifestyle community members to be interested in you, these badges are a big help. And TKG is well-known and respected within the Lifestyle community.

Community Confirmed

This badge means that other members of the Lifestyle Community confirmed the following:

They met this member in person.
They found that this member matched their profile description.

You can get confirmed in the following ways.

Referrals from two other community-confirmed members
Referrals from a member who is "blessed" to bestow badges
Referrals from Admin

Below is the form you can find on each user's profile.

Couples Confirmed

This badge means that the members have provided a photo showing two people holding a sign that says this is their account. The sign must have a recent date on it. These two people in the photo must match the information in their profile.

They do not have to be married or cohabitating.

To get your badge, message admin with a link to your photo.

Hall Pass

This badge means the member has permission from their spouse or significant other to play solo.

You must provide a photo of you and your spouse holding up a piece of paper with your member name and a statement similar to, "He/She/We have permission to play solo."

We recommend that you make this photo available in your profile photos--so anyone interested can find it.

If you feel uneasy about a photo showing your faces, you can create a CUSTOM PRIVATE folder and show it only to members of your choosing.

For the extra, extra cautious, you can message that photo in a private chat to Admin. That way, you can still get the Hall Pass badge without having an image showing your faces on the site.

To get your badge, message admin with a link to your photo.

Blessed

Blessed members can award other members with the following status:

Community Confirmed
Couples Confirmed
Hall Pass

Blessed members have a well-established presence and a good reputation in the lifestyle community. To be blessed, you either have to know Admin or be confirmed by other well-established members of the Lifestyle community.