Lifestyle

What makes you an expert? But what makes you an expert? It's a fair question and one I've been asked a few times lately. The answer, like most things, is multifaceted. ...

ARE SWINGER FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE? We all know what friends with benefits are. I’m sure at some point in your life, you have had one, or have been one, or maybe you are living your best FWB life right now? But when it comes to swinging and swinger relationships, do FWB still exist? And if so, where do you find them? I mean, truth be told, it all sounds pretty perfect! A swinger couple who you can play with, without fear of emotions getting caught up or complications? Are sw...

Ready to dive deeper into the world of ethical non-monogamy and connect with a like-minded community? The TKG Club is your all-access pass to everything ENM, hosted on CNM4US! It's the perfect place for you if: You're curious about any aspect of ENM, from cuckolding and swinging to exploring open relationships!  You're done with time-wasters and crave genuine connections!  ...

Do we have to DO anything when swinging? One question I hear frequently and can certainly relate to is: Do we have to DO anything when swinging? I remember when I first got involved in the lifestyle, and one of my biggest fears was having to do things that I wasn’t comfortable doing. And later, when I became a single female swinger, again, I was worried that I would feel pressure from couples, especially, to play with them. I wanted to make a piece of content that offers you answers from two p...

Why do some men have more success in Swinger Clubs? And no, it’s nothing physical! It’s got nothing to do with dick size, chest size, salary or what a man drives. Neither has it anything to do with how much he paid for his ticket, what clubs he has been to before or how many people he’s slept with. When it comes to why do some men have more success in Swinger Clubs? (and I hear this question a lot) in my experience, it boils down to a few factors, and none of them, as you have probably guessed,...

Being involved in the lifestyle certainly has its perks. These are juicy add-ons that no one has told you about. The little bonus’s that reconfirm that your decision to start swinging was the right one. You know what I’m talking about; The secret world you create within your existing relationship, where you experience compersion, honesty and total trust. The intimate environment where you revel in complete acceptance from your partner, husband or wife; they love you, know you, understand you and...

I'm A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don't Like The Word Swinging.   Recently, I received this question: Rosie, how come people still use the word swinger? What does it mean? Isn't it a bit, well, dated? Is there something more appropriate for 2024?   To which I replied with: 'You know, I don't even like the word Swinger; it doesn't resonate with me; you are right; it is a dated term.' And so here's the predicament, guys and girls; I'm a swinger lifetsyle expert who doesn't like the word sw...

TKG Club: Your Gateway to a Wider World of ENM   Tired of the same old dating apps and the endless search for genuine connection within the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) world? You're not alone.   Many of us crave a deeper, more meaningful experience beyond casual hookups and superficial interactions. ...

Top Swinger Date Ideas  Welcome to ‘the Lifestyle’. If you are reading this, then chances are you have already had the ‘I Want To Try Swinging’ conversation with your partner or have given it some serious consideration if you are a single person wanting to get involved in swinging. But how do you go about having that all-important swinger first date?    Here are a few top swinger date ideas: ...

I said no, and now I regret it- help!- Ad, Newcastle    Hi Rosie. My wife and I have visited clubs previously, and we enjoyed the atmosphere but haven't played with others. A little while ago, she was working in a bar, and a guy started talking to her about a threesome. She came home and told me, and I said, let's do it. She took 6 weeks to arrange it, but this time she was messaging him a lot and saw him at the bar.   She wouldn't let me meet him or chat with him online. I stopped it becaus...