Lifestyle

When Should We Take The Next Step? Hi Rosie, my wife and I have been together since we were 14, have become curious about being swingers. We have recently been to a swinger club in Spain a few times, and we both find it very exciting. We have only had sex with each other without anyone else, but we think we want to explore further with a threesome or other couples. How do we know we are ready for that? Carlos- Madrid Hi Carlos, It's fantastic that you and your wife are exploring this new c...

This is why you are struggling to meet people on swinger dating sites You need to be an invested ‘online dater’. Any form of online dating, ENM or not, requires a level of investment if you actually want to meet someone. If you simply want to hook up fu&k around or are not sure what you are looking for, lol, then this article isn’t for you. Look away now. But if you want to meet someone or some people with genuine intentions, i.e. swinger couples, then you will want to continue reading. Somet...

Here at Thiskindagirl, I want to bring you all the answers you are looking for. And how better to do this than a dedicated Swinger Lifestyle FAQ article? This article is a round-up of the most popular questions and topics that my followers send me on social media and by email. Get clued up and swinger smart before you get completely confused about the lifestyle! WHAT IS SWINGING? Swinging is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where sexual inhibitions are extended past the committed relationship ...

What makes you an expert? But what makes you an expert? It's a fair question and one I've been asked a few times lately. The answer, like most things, is multifaceted. ...

ARE SWINGER FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE? We all know what friends with benefits are. I’m sure at some point in your life, you have had one, or have been one, or maybe you are living your best FWB life right now? But when it comes to swinging and swinger relationships, do FWB still exist? And if so, where do you find them? I mean, truth be told, it all sounds pretty perfect! A swinger couple who you can play with, without fear of emotions getting caught up or complications? Are sw...

Ready to dive deeper into the world of ethical non-monogamy and connect with a like-minded community? The TKG Club is your all-access pass to everything ENM, hosted on CNM4US! It's the perfect place for you if: You're curious about any aspect of ENM, from cuckolding and swinging to exploring open relationships!  You're done with time-wasters and crave genuine connections!  ...

Do we have to DO anything when swinging? One question I hear frequently and can certainly relate to is: Do we have to DO anything when swinging? I remember when I first got involved in the lifestyle, and one of my biggest fears was having to do things that I wasn’t comfortable doing. And later, when I became a single female swinger, again, I was worried that I would feel pressure from couples, especially, to play with them. I wanted to make a piece of content that offers you answers from two p...

Why do some men have more success in Swinger Clubs? And no, it’s nothing physical! It’s got nothing to do with dick size, chest size, salary or what a man drives. Neither has it anything to do with how much he paid for his ticket, what clubs he has been to before or how many people he’s slept with. When it comes to why do some men have more success in Swinger Clubs? (and I hear this question a lot) in my experience, it boils down to a few factors, and none of them, as you have probably guessed,...

Being involved in the lifestyle certainly has its perks. These are juicy add-ons that no one has told you about. The little bonus’s that reconfirm that your decision to start swinging was the right one. You know what I’m talking about; The secret world you create within your existing relationship, where you experience compersion, honesty and total trust. The intimate environment where you revel in complete acceptance from your partner, husband or wife; they love you, know you, understand you and...

I'm A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don't Like The Word Swinging.   Recently, I received this question: Rosie, how come people still use the word swinger? What does it mean? Isn't it a bit, well, dated? Is there something more appropriate for 2024?   To which I replied with: 'You know, I don't even like the word Swinger; it doesn't resonate with me; you are right; it is a dated term.' And so here's the predicament, guys and girls; I'm a swinger lifetsyle expert who doesn't like the word sw...