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The CNM4US Marketplace Verified members can sell items in the Marketplace. We currently support payment service providers PayPal and Stripe. If you have an account with one of these PSPs, you can enter your PSP information in your CNM4US Account Settings and start selling items in the Marketplace.  What Can We Sell? You can sell tangible or intangible items.   ...

SwingRing and The 10-minute Touch Base Call The lifestyle journey is fun, exciting, sexy .... and full of challenges. Along the way, you will encounter fakes, flakes, and people who are pondering their options but are still not ready to commit. All of this can make for a lot of disappointing meetings. People fail to show up. People show up but don't look anything like their photos. One person of the couple is super excited to meet you and their partner appears confused about why you are meeti...

The Need for Privacy Some folks are totally open about their participation in the Lifestyle. They want to know what rings or jewelry they can wear to signal to other swingers. They are happy to wear a t-shirt with a giant upside-down pineapple. They don't care who knows. They have no fears. Some people have good reasons to keep their lifestyle habits private. Their conservative family or church community might disown them. They might get fired. If they are active military personnel, they might...

Your Data Belongs to You There's a saying, "If the service is free, you are the product." Or more accurately, your data is the product. Facebook is free, meaning you don't have to pay monthly with your credit card. So, how do they make money? They make money from selling, lending, or leasing YOUR DATA. Facebook makes approximately $300 per year from each person's data or $25 monthly. That's why you get to use Facebook for "Free." Because CNM4US earns its revenue from subscription services, i...

ThisKindaGirl on CNM4US Many of you already know ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay. She's a well known vodcaster in the Lifestyle Community. She provides Lifestyle Coaching Services for couples and singles. If you are new to the Lifestyle community and need some help getting oriented or getting your bearings, you should contact ThisKindaGirl for some Lifestyle Coaching. CNM4US strongly recommends ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay, as a Lifestyle Coach. New to the Lifestyle and need some help getting oriented...

Our Mission CNM4US champions a positive and inclusive approach to Consensual Non-Monogamy, striving to make it a socially accepted and respected lifestyle choice. Our mission is to create a welcoming and supportive platform where individuals and couples can explore and engage in CNM safely and joyously. We emphasize the importance of consent, respect, and communication, providing our community with tools and resources to enhance their relationships and sexual health. We cater to a diverse audi...

Managing Your Group Has your Meet-n-Greet or play party grown so big that you need tools to manage it? Have you thought that maybe Evite is not the right tool for managing Events and RSVPs? Maybe instead of Evite, you'd like a place where people can talk openly about sex and even post photos and establish profiles? CNM4US Groups to the rescue! Manage Events and RSVPS in your own CNM4US Group. Here are the details on events. ...

Managing Your Page If you are a CNM related business or organization, contact us for your own Page on the site. You must be a CNM related businesses that is sex-positive, inclusive and women oriented are accepted. If you have an established business with an established audience, with an established customer base, then we will provide you with free account, but you will still be required to go through the standard verification process. Pages are for Businesses and Organizations Pages are mean...

Tips on Making Videos Read the with Community Guidelines CNM4US encourages nude and erotic vidoes. Subjects are allowed to be completely nude and touching each other. However, they are not allowed to be sexually explicit. See the Community Guidelines to understand the rules around videos. Minor violations will get a warning with directions to take the video down. Major violations will get violators banned from the site. General Production Tips ...