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April 8, 2024
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Tips on Making Videos
Read the with Community Guidelines
CNM4US encourages nude and erotic vidoes. Subjects are allowed to be completely nude and touching each other. However, they are not allowed to be sexually explicit. See the Community Guidelines to understand the rules around videos.
Minor violations will get a warning with directions to take the video down. Major violations will get violators banned from the site.
General Production Tips
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March 24, 2024
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CNM4US is Open to the Public!
CNM4US is a
Social Media and Dating Site for the Consensually Non-Monogamous
Sex-positive
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March 24, 2024
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Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
Dating Site
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March 24, 2024
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CNM4US Events - Lifestyle Networking Made Easy
CNM4US members can view Events on the CNM4US worldwide Event Map. This map is always centered on the CNM4US member's Postal Code or Alternate Address (if they are traveling).
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March 24, 2024
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Dear Members, Post Your Suggestions Here
We are not perfect. We have not thought of everything. We have likely excluded some people, or at least failed to adequately include and represent them. Maybe we've framed something innappropriately, or even hurtfully.
And for our many shortcomings, we apologize!
We will read all suggestions. That's not a promise to act on every suggestion.
However, if suggestions are presented in a thoughtful, and well written manner, we are more likely to seriously ...
October 19, 2023
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Complete your Profile
Complete your profile and let people know it's active! We will delete the accounts of Unverified users who have yet to upload an avatar and cover image after 30 days.
Upload an Avatar Image
Upload a Cover Image
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October 17, 2023
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CNM4US Chat Features
CNM4US chat is based on CometChat, an enterprise chat solution. CometChat has a rich and reliable feature set. To activate the chat feature, click on the the burgundy chat icon in the bottom-right corner of your browser window.
Once opened, you will see icons at the bottom of your chat screen for
Chats: conservations already started with other members or groups. Click on a chat to pickup where you left off.
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October 11, 2023
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Criminal Background Checks: A Step Towards Safer Connections
Many dating sites are experimenting with some type of background check. We are all struggling with finding ways to bring more trust into online dating system.
Match.com invested over $1 million in Garbo--a non-invasive background check system. Because Garbo didn't ask too many questions about you, it also came up with so many false positives as to render it's assessments worthless. Match.com ended up abandoning their partnership with...
October 11, 2023
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Don't Yuk Someone's Yum
In a sex-positive environment, we want everyone to feel comfortable talking about the things that turn them on, as well as the things that don't. It's not necessary to put down someone else' preferences in order to communicate yours.
Claiming to only be talking about how you feel is not sufficient to get you off the hook for a Community Guidelines Violation.
Because this topic is somewhat fuzzy, I wanted to provide greater details regarding everyone's responsibility in...
October 10, 2023
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Featured Member—What's That?
See the yellow flag with the white diamond when you are searching for Members? That is the Featured Member flag. Featured Members also have yellow PINS on the Members Map.
How do you qualify to be Featured?
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Featured Blogs
January 7, 2025
Author: Lauren Hayse
See Swinging Lifestyle Coach
For Better or Even Better
7 Lessons on Life & Love from a Non-Monogamist
Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships—both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this boo...
August 14, 2023
CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
Education
Titilation
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March 24, 2024
Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
Dating Site
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