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March 18, 2025
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20 Top Tips To Attract Genuine Swingers To Your Swinger Dating Profile
Here are my TOP TIPS to help you attract genuine swingers:
Create an Authentic Profile. What do I mean by an authentic profile? Here, I am referring to a profile that truly represents who you are and what you are all about. Authentic profiles are 60% swinger information and 40% about you as a person. They include a good mixture of pictures and are not overly explicit. I explain this further in How to create a Great Swing...
December 25, 2024
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OnlyFans Models on CNM4US
Everyone is welcome on CNM4US as long as they follow the Community Guidelines. CNM4US is about Education, Support, Titilation, and connection through community building.
Community Guidelines in a Nutshell
You can post nude and erotic images and videos. Complete nudity is allowed. However images and videos cannot be sexually explicit. That means no intercourse/insertion, no oral sex, and no erect penises. All subjects must be clearly over the age of consent. Depictio...
July 31, 2024
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Bug Bounty
It is inevitable that a site with this many features will have a few bugs from time to time. However, CNM4US strives to identify and fix bugs as rapidly as possible. Our members can help by reporting bugs when they find them.
If you are the first member to report a replicable bug, CNM4US will reward your communication to us with $50.
If you are the 2nd or 3rd person to report the same bug, BEFORE it's fixed, CNM4US will bestow upon you 1 kudo.
3 kudos = $50 reward.
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July 13, 2024
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CNM4US Cruise Groups
One of our members, Alcouple47, mentioned that swingers who take vanilla cruises look for other swingers on those cruises.
I've done a little reading to confirm many postings in forums asking about how swingers can find other swingers on vanilla cruises. Not everyone will hang an upside-down pineapple or post a suggestive note on their door. What's a swinger at sea supposed to do?
CNM4US has an answer -- Cruise Groups
On request, CNM4US will create a Group for a specific...
July 13, 2024
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The CNM4US Affiliate Program
Affiliate Links
Any link to the site can be turned into an affiliate link by simply adding the following: ?affiliateID=yourMemberName
For example, Fred can create an affiliate link to the site like this.
https://www.cnm4us.com?affiliateID=Fred
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June 12, 2024
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CNM4US introduces the Private Access Pass
Have you ever wanted a business card for your lifestyle profile?
One of the biggest problems with Lifestyle websites is their fragmentation. If you meet someone interesting at a club or meet-n-greet, what are the chances that you are both on the same site? Slim!
Your online community does little to support your IRL (In Real Life) networking efforts. Giving someone your profile name only helps them if they subscribe to the same site—and mostly, they do...
May 29, 2024
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Images for Blog Posts or Events
CNM4US Blogs and Events have a place for an image. You can publish a blog or an event without an image, but they look a little naked.
Only some people are adept with digital media--like images. That's okay. If you want an image for your Blog or Event, just message Admin. We'll be happy to create one for you.
Describe the Image You Want
Do you want an illustration or a photograph?
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May 24, 2024
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Quick Video on the Member Verification Process with Veriff
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May 5, 2024
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CNM4US Notes
Finding the right matches in the lifestyle is a numbers game. Network, communicate, discuss. Wait, did we talk to those people already? I can't remember what they said.
Every profile has a Notes tab where you can leave notes for yourself.
Only you can see your notes. The profile you left it on cannot see your notes. Other members cannot see your notes. Only you can see your notes.
If there's something important you need to remember about a profile, leave a note for yourself to ...
May 5, 2024
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Welcome to this Exciting Collaboration!
Greetings TKG Club members. CNM4US welcomes you to the site!
ThisKindaGirl will be offering its members lifestyle dating features via CNM4US.
CNM4US provides social media and dating features for the lifestyle community. Think a mashup between facebook and match.com but for swingers.
ThisKindaGirl will make their exclusive content available on their new private group TKG - Premium on CNM4US. ThisKindaGirl will continue to make their exclusivie conten...
May 5, 2024
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Testimonials
Testimonials are a great way to meet new people.
We naturally seek the opinions of people we know and trust, and the lifestyle is no different.
That's why CNM4US provides a Testimonials feature on every Profile.
How do Testimonials Work?
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April 21, 2024
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The CNM4US Marketplace
Verified members can sell items in the Marketplace. We currently support payment service providers PayPal and Stripe. If you have an account with one of these PSPs, you can enter your PSP information in your CNM4US Account Settings and start selling items in the Marketplace.
What Can We Sell?
You can sell tangible or intangible items.
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April 20, 2024
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SwingRing and The 10-minute Touch Base Call
The lifestyle journey is fun, exciting, sexy .... and full of challenges. Along the way, you will encounter fakes, flakes, and people who are pondering their options but are still not ready to commit.
All of this can make for a lot of disappointing meetings. People fail to show up. People show up but don't look anything like their photos. One person of the couple is super excited to meet you and their partner appears confused about why you are meeti...
April 16, 2024
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The Need for Privacy
Some folks are totally open about their participation in the Lifestyle. They want to know what rings or jewelry they can wear to signal to other swingers. They are happy to wear a t-shirt with a giant upside-down pineapple. They don't care who knows. They have no fears.
Some people have good reasons to keep their lifestyle habits private. Their conservative family or church community might disown them. They might get fired. If they are active military personnel, they might...
April 16, 2024
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Your Data Belongs to You
There's a saying, "If the service is free, you are the product." Or more accurately, your data is the product.
Facebook is free, meaning you don't have to pay monthly with your credit card. So, how do they make money? They make money from selling, lending, or leasing YOUR DATA.
Facebook makes approximately $300 per year from each person's data or $25 monthly. That's why you get to use Facebook for "Free."
Because CNM4US earns its revenue from subscription services, i...
April 14, 2024
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ThisKindaGirl on CNM4US
Many of you already know ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay. She's a well known vodcaster in the Lifestyle Community. She provides Lifestyle Coaching Services for couples and singles. If you are new to the Lifestyle community and need some help getting oriented or getting your bearings, you should contact ThisKindaGirl for some Lifestyle Coaching. CNM4US strongly recommends ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay, as a Lifestyle Coach.
New to the Lifestyle and need some help getting oriented...
April 14, 2024
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Our Mission
CNM4US champions a positive and inclusive approach to Consensual Non-Monogamy, striving to make it a socially accepted and respected lifestyle choice. Our mission is to create a welcoming and supportive platform where individuals and couples can explore and engage in CNM safely and joyously. We emphasize the importance of consent, respect, and communication, providing our community with tools and resources to enhance their relationships and sexual health.
We cater to a diverse audi...
April 8, 2024
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Managing Your Group
Has your Meet-n-Greet or play party grown so big that you need tools to manage it? Have you thought that maybe Evite is not the right tool for managing Events and RSVPs? Maybe instead of Evite, you'd like a place where people can talk openly about sex and even post photos and establish profiles?
CNM4US Groups to the rescue!
Manage Events and RSVPS in your own CNM4US Group. Here are the details on events.
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April 8, 2024
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Managing Your Page
If you are a CNM related business or organization, contact us for your own Page on the site. You must be a CNM related businesses that is sex-positive, inclusive and women oriented are accepted.
If you have an established business with an established audience, with an established customer base, then we will provide you with free account, but you will still be required to go through the standard verification process.
Pages are for Businesses and Organizations
Pages are mean...
Featured Blogs
January 7, 2025
Author: Lauren Hayse
See Swinging Lifestyle Coach
For Better or Even Better
7 Lessons on Life & Love from a Non-Monogamist
Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships—both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this boo...
August 14, 2023
CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
Education
Titilation
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March 24, 2024
Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
Dating Site
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