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Hi Rosie, my partner and I had an incredible swinging experience while we were on vacation. We hooked up with a fun couple, and everything was amazing. Fast forward to Thanksgiving dinner at my aunt and uncle's house, and to our shock, one of the people we played with walks in. Turns out, he's my second cousin! We locked eyes across the table, both of us frozen in shock. We didn't know what to do, and my partner and I didn't speak to the second cousin during the dinner. Now we have to navigate t...

HANDLING SWINGER EMOTIONS   Handling Swinger Emotions, this topic is part of a mini-series I am doing, all about handling emotions when swinging with another couple. I have already shared with you two great questions that I received, and in this post, I aim to uncover the mixed bag of emotions that arise when you are swinging with other playmates.   Guilt, jealousy, insecurity and discovery are all part of the process, and luckily for you, I’m right here with you to help make sense of this e...

20 TOP TIPS TO ATTRACT GENUINE SWINGERS TO YOUR SWINGER DATING PROFILE Attracting genuine swingers online involves: Creating a trustworthy and appealing profile. Engaging respectfully with the Community. ...

Hi Rosie, what is soft swinging?    Today, I have decided to create content that often gets overlooked when discussing the lifestyle: soft swinging. In this article, I will discuss soft swinging, why a couple might practice it, and how it is viewed in the adult lifestyle world. Are couples who practice soft swinging less 'useful' than those who 'go all the way'? And are there some couples or individuals who only ever soft-swap?    Turn those lights down low and settle in. It's time to talk a...

Non-Monogamy & Newbie drama! He did what?!? Eyes roll. Jaws drop. Quick, please--somebody fetch my popcorn. Cuz, here we go again! I will tell you the number one cause of newbie drama, hurt feelings, and broken relationships. Lack of communication! But you didn't even know what you were supposed to communicate about, which is what I will explain to you right now. Types of Non-Monogamy ...

This is part 2 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...

You and Your Partner Have Decided to Give Swinging a Try How do you find like-minded couples? Should you approach your flirtatious friends? Many of us know people who relish communicating in suggestive innuendos and adult-rated double entendres. Why say something in a normal, everyday tone when you could titillate, or even shock, your audience with risqué subtexts? These folks love to bring the spice to their social interactions. Are they daring you to acknowledge their sexual gist? Maybe you'...

This is part 1 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...

This is part 3 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...

Nearly 60% of men fantasize about seeing their wives having sexual pleasure with another man. Approximately 30% of women have similar feelings about their husbands. Compersion is the term most frequently associated with this phenomenon. However, Candaulism is a lesser-known term related to this phenomenon. There is some overlap between Compersion and Candaulism. Compersion is more about the relationship, while Candualism is more about sexual activity. Compersion Compersion is the joy we expe...