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By March 31, 2025
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How To Tell Someone You Like Swinging   This article isn’t going to tell you how to talk to your partner about starting swinging. Neither is it going to advise you on how to have that conversation.   I’m not going to sugarcoat the truth, and I’m not going to tell you what you want to hear. ...
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By March 3, 2025
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This is why you are struggling to meet people on swinger dating sites You need to be an invested ‘online dater’. Any form of online dating, ENM or not, requires a level of investment if you actually want to meet someone. If you simply want to hook up fu&k around or are not sure what you are looking for, lol, then this article isn’t for you. Look away now. But if you want to meet someone or some people with genuine intentions, i.e. swinger couples, then you will want to continue reading. Somet...
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By November 21, 2024
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Top Swinger Date Ideas  Welcome to ‘the Lifestyle’. If you are reading this, then chances are you have already had the ‘I Want To Try Swinging’ conversation with your partner or have given it some serious consideration if you are a single person wanting to get involved in swinging. But how do you go about having that all-important swinger first date?    Here are a few top swinger date ideas: ...
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By October 31, 2024
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How To Act In A Swingers Club   Why I believe this article is long overdue... When working with my coaching clients on a 1-2-1 basis, they often ask me for advice on behaviour and etiquette in clubs.    'How should I/we act in a swingers club? What behaviour is a no-no?'  ...
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By October 25, 2024
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Body Confidence When Swinging   Recently, I was discussing body confidence with one of my friends, A, who’s a single girl. Although A isn’t a swinger, she’s quite curious about the lifestyle and swinger scene, and I told her I’d take her with me to a club that was suited to her particular fetish when they reopen. She confided in me that although she is keen to attend, she doesn’t feel body positive and confident. I assured her she had nothing to worry about, but this got me thinking, and so I...
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By October 24, 2024
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What Are The Rules of Swinging?   When considering entering the world of swinging, it pays to do your research first and discover what the rules of swinging are. And, if there are any, how best to follow them? Do the same rules apply to all situations?   Here are my top 5 Rules to follow when swinging: ...
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By July 24, 2024
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Hi Rosie, my partner and I had an incredible swinging experience while we were on vacation. We hooked up with a fun couple, and everything was amazing. Fast forward to Thanksgiving dinner at my aunt and uncle's house, and to our shock, one of the people we played with walks in. Turns out, he's my second cousin! We locked eyes across the table, both of us frozen in shock. We didn't know what to do, and my partner and I didn't speak to the second cousin during the dinner. Now we have to navigate t...
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By June 24, 2024
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HANDLING SWINGER EMOTIONS   Handling Swinger Emotions, this topic is part of a mini-series I am doing, all about handling emotions when swinging with another couple. I have already shared with you two great questions that I received, and in this post, I aim to uncover the mixed bag of emotions that arise when you are swinging with other playmates.   Guilt, jealousy, insecurity and discovery are all part of the process, and luckily for you, I’m right here with you to help make sense of this e...
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By June 3, 2024
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20 TOP TIPS TO ATTRACT GENUINE SWINGERS TO YOUR SWINGER DATING PROFILE Attracting genuine swingers online involves: Creating a trustworthy and appealing profile. Engaging respectfully with the Community. ...
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By May 14, 2024
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Hi Rosie, what is soft swinging?    Today, I have decided to create content that often gets overlooked when discussing the lifestyle: soft swinging. In this article, I will discuss soft swinging, why a couple might practice it, and how it is viewed in the adult lifestyle world. Are couples who practice soft swinging less 'useful' than those who 'go all the way'? And are there some couples or individuals who only ever soft-swap?    Turn those lights down low and settle in. It's time to talk a...
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By May 8, 2024
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Non-Monogamy & Newbie drama! He did what?!? Eyes roll. Jaws drop. Quick, please--somebody fetch my popcorn. Cuz, here we go again! I will tell you the number one cause of newbie drama, hurt feelings, and broken relationships. Lack of communication! But you didn't even know what you were supposed to communicate about, which is what I will explain to you right now. Types of Non-Monogamy ...
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By March 24, 2024
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This is part 2 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...
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By March 24, 2024
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You and Your Partner Have Decided to Give Swinging a Try How do you find like-minded couples? Should you approach your flirtatious friends? Many of us know people who relish communicating in suggestive innuendos and adult-rated double entendres. Why say something in a normal, everyday tone when you could titillate, or even shock, your audience with risqué subtexts? These folks love to bring the spice to their social interactions. Are they daring you to acknowledge their sexual gist? Maybe you'...
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By March 24, 2024
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This is part 1 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...
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By March 24, 2024
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This is part 3 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...
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By March 24, 2024
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Nearly 60% of men fantasize about seeing their wives having sexual pleasure with another man. Approximately 30% of women have similar feelings about their husbands. Compersion is the term most frequently associated with this phenomenon. However, Candaulism is a lesser-known term related to this phenomenon. There is some overlap between Compersion and Candaulism. Compersion is more about the relationship, while Candualism is more about sexual activity. Compersion Compersion is the joy we expe...
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By March 14, 2024
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When attending a swingers party, lifestyle club, or any event that is along the lines of getting naked and freaky with others, its best to have some idea into what’s appropriate and what’s not. Proper Swinger Club Etiquette is something that should never be overlooked. Being respectful, considerate and playing safely whilst still being sexy are things that should be all taken into account. Before I attended my first swingers party, I searched online, hoping to find any information that would he...
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By March 14, 2024
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RECONNECTING AFTER SWINGING Aftercare is a term we usually associate with BDSM relationships, where the submissive partner is cared for by the dominant partner, as they transition from their roles as submissive and dominant back to Jane and Pete from Croydon. Aftercare, or reconnecting, is crucial and should never be ignored. I believe so strongly about the importance of reconnecting after swinging, that I am going to dedicate a whole post to this intimate ritual act. So as always, slip into so...
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By March 14, 2024
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Male Insecurities And Swinging- Help! I Can’t Get Hard! Recently, I received a question from one of my male followers, who wanted to ask for my thoughts on male sexual performance, and how did I feel about it when a guy loses his erection during a swingers party? Could I share any insight into how men could deal with this and how does it make women feel? Was there a right or wrong way to deal with it? Is there any ‘Erectile Disfunction Etiquette’ that should be followed? There’s more to it than...
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By March 14, 2024
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You have been chatting with another couple online, and perhaps you have had a swinger first date where you guys have discussed your expectations, limits and kinks. You have all gotten to know one another, and you like what you see! It’s only natural that you then want to meet up and turn all your fantasies into realities! Here are a few of my top tips for swinging with another couple: It would be best if you established where it is acceptable to orgasm before you orgasm! You also should ask...
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By March 14, 2024
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Can I enjoy swinging if I am naturally shy? Can I let you into a secret? Lean close, and I’ll whisper it in your ear. I’m naturally a shy introvert! Really?! I can hear you asking really?! This girl with all the savvy swinger know-how and the smart mouth is shy? Yep! I’m afraid so! But have I let this shyness hold me back from swinging? No! Have I learnt to overcome my shyness and have a great time when swapping partners? yes! ...
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By March 14, 2024
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Different Types Of Swingers we all have our own ideas as to what makes sex great! Sex is as unique as the person having it. What makes YOU tick is exclusive and reserved only for you. Yes, we may enjoy something similar to others or have shared fantasies and desires, however, the emotions, the sensations and the particular way that your body responds to sex is deeply personal. We may have wants and desires that we share, but only we know our true comfort levels. There is no right or wrong way...
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By March 14, 2024
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Body Confidence When Swinging. Recently, I was discussing body confidence with one of my friends, A, who’s a single girl. Although A isn’t a swinger, she’s quite curious about the lifestyle and swinger scene, and I told her I’d take her with me to a club that was suited to her particular fetish when they reopen. She confided in me that although she is keen to attend, she doesn’t feel body positive and confident. I assured her she had nothing to worry about, but this got me thinking, and so, I gi...
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By March 14, 2024
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Having an open relationship, talking about it honestly, truthfully, and showing vulnerability to your partner, comes from a place of love. Wanting to keep your existing relationship intact and find a solution that suits both of you, without jeopardising the life you have built together, that's love. Let’s talk about open relationships. Have you heard any of the following statements? That’s where one of you gets to cheat, and the other person has no say in it, right? ...
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By February 28, 2024
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What Is Being A Swinger Like? I have been in the swinger Lifestyle for over 10 years now, so I would like to think that I have a pretty solid understanding of what being in the scene is all about. Over the last ten plus years, I have met both amazing swingers and awful ones. I have been in situations that have not gone as planned, met some really creepy individuals, had some underwhelming experiences, but on the whole, its been an absolute pleasure; after all, I’ve been doing it, and doing it ...
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By February 28, 2024
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Is Swinging Cheating? Many people ask this question, and for good reason. If you type swinging into Google, cheating and swinging are displayed as popular topics. It is easy to see why people might associate swinging with cheating, as we are talking about having sexual intercourse outside of your relationship. First, we have to establish what exactly cheating is and why men and women view it differently. Before we get started discussing swinging and cheating, here are my top tips on avoiding c...
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By February 28, 2024
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How Does The Swinger Lifestyle Work? Hi Rosie, how does the swinger lifestyle work? Is it best to go to a club or meet people in private? Is it like a free-for-all, or is it more personal than this? We have no idea what to expect but are curious. When I received this question, How Does The Swinger Lifestyle Work, I knew I would enjoy diving into it and dissecting it further. Banishing the stigma associated with the lifestyle and challenging common misconceptions people have is one reason I...
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By February 28, 2024
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How Common Is Swinging? When you think about swinging and sexual liberation, how far back do you go? In ancient history, there are a few examples of sexual promiscuity that you already may be familiar with. In Ancient Rome, Emperor Tiberius used to enjoy swimming with young male lovers. Messalina, the wife of Claudius, challenged the prostitutes of Rome to a competition to see how many men each could sleep with, in a single night. These examples, however, are merely folk law and modern swingin...
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By February 28, 2024
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Can Single Women Attend Swinger Clubs? There are two reasons I wanted to write this post; firstly because I wrote an article recently titled 'Can Single Men Visit Swinger Clubs?' and why should they get all the advice? And secondly, I asked my followers to get in touch with their questions, and my DM inbox has been bursting with replies. I am, after all, here to answer all your swinger, relationship and lifestyle-related queries! So, if you are sitting comfortably, I shall begin. Dear thiski...
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By February 28, 2024
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Can Single Men Visit Swinger Clubs? Welcome sexy single males to the world of swinger clubs! Before you strip off and dive in, read my top tips on how Single Men can visit swinger clubs and what you can do to boost your chances of success! Here are my quick 5 essential top tips: ...
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