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The Swinging Paradigm: An Evaluation of the Marital and Sexual Satisfaction of Swingers Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Volume 12, January 23, 2009 By Edward M. Fernandes "The Swinging Paradigm" by Edward M. Fernandes provides an in-depth analysis of the swinging lifestyle, focusing on the marital and sexual satisfaction of swingers. The introduction highlights the development of Fernandes' interest in the topic, spurred by an article questioning whether family values can survive sexua...

Porn in Their Words: Female Leaders in the Adult Entertainment Industry Address Free Speech, Censorship, Feminism, Culture and the Mainstreaming of Adult Content Vanderbilt Journal of Entertainment & Technology Law Volume 9 Issue 2 - Winter 2006 This journal article "Porn in Their Words: Female Leaders in the Adult Entertainment Industry Address Free Speech, Censorship, Feminism, Culture, and the Mainstreaming of Adult Content" is a comprehensive exploration into the intersection of the adul...

In her memoir, “More,” Molly Roden Winter recounts the highs and lows of juggling an open marriage with work and child care. By Alexandra Alter For anyone prone to experiencing secondhand embarrassment, there’s a scene in Molly Roden Winter’s debut, “More: A Memoir of Open Marriage,” that should come with a warning. Winter is at her home in Brooklyn. She has just had sex with her boyfriend while her two children sleep upstairs. Her husband, Stewart, consented to her tryst, but feeling guilt...

A smart, sexy guide to embracing the repressed, tabooed, and often unwanted aspects of ourselves so we can discover our inner power and finally live the life we deserve. “We always get exactly what we want; but often, though we may not be aware of it, what we most want is dark—very dark.” Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality—the “other,” the shadow side—is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impu...

A leading expert on human sexuality and author of the blog Sex and Psychology offers an unprecedented look at sexual fantasy based on the most comprehensive, scientific survey ever undertaken. What do Americans really want when it comes to sex? And is it possible for us to get what we want? Justin J. Lehmiller, one of the country's leading experts on human sexuality and author of the popular blog Sex and Psychology, has made it his career's ambition to answer these questions. He recently conclu...

"The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love" by Dedeker Winston is a comprehensive and insightful book that delves into the world of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. Here's a review of the book: Overview Dedeker Winston's book serves as an informative guide, particularly aimed at women, though it's valuable for anyone interested in exploring polyamory. It covers a wide range of topics, from the basics...

Author: Terence H. Hull PhD Terence H. Hull PhD (2008) Sexual Pleasure and Wellbeing, International Journal of Sexual Health, 20:1-2, 133-145, DOI: 10.1080/19317610802157234 Overview The article discusses the complex relationship between sexual pleasure and overall wellbeing, highlighting the challenges in integrating sexual pleasure into the broader sexual health agenda. It emphasizes the need for a deeper understanding and recognition of sexual pleasure as a crucial aspect of holistic healt...

Authors: Bente Træen & Frode Thuen Bente Træen & Frode Thuen (2022) Non-consensual and Consensual Non-monogamy in Norway, International Journal of Sexual Health, 34:1, 65-80, DOI: 10.1080/19317611.2021.1947931 Overview The study explores the experiences of Norwegians with both non-consensual and consensual non-monogamy. It aims to provide insights into how these practices are related to relationship intimacy and attitudes towards sex and sexuality. Methodology ...

"The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity" by Esther Perel offers a nuanced examination of infidelity in relationships. Perel, a respected couples therapist, presents a controversial perspective that infidelity can ultimately be beneficial for relationships. This does not mean that she advocates for infidelity; rather, she explores how affairs can compel partners to closely reevaluate their attitudes about love, commitment, and sex. The book is lauded for its insightful and balanced approach...

"Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence" by Esther Perel is a profound exploration of the intricate relationship between domesticity and sexual desire. Perel, a renowned therapist, delves into the paradoxical union of these two aspects and offers guidance on rekindling passion in long-term relationships. The book is celebrated for its insightful and counterintuitive approach to modern relationships. Perel's expertise in couples therapy informs her exploration of maintaining desire a...