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July 14, 2025
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Hi Rosie, I don’t feel I can be intimate with men other than my husband when swinging- help!
POV: You feel unsure of your involvement in the swinger lifestyle. You feel pressure to perform when you talk about the lifestyle to your partner. You don’t want to sign yourself up for something you are not 100% on board with!
Why? Sometimes, we find ourselves in overwhelming situations, and even if we are initially on board with something, we can soon lose sight of what we want to experience if...
June 25, 2024
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Yikes, my partner is moving too fast!
Hi Rosie, my partner and I started swinging about six months ago, and we met a couple in private who we found online. We also visited a swingers club three times. Although I enjoy it, and I am on board with it, my male partner, whom I have been with for 2 years, often gets very 'fired up' when speaking to other swingers online or looking at clubs. I understand that he is enthusiastic, but I often feel he makes decisions without considering how I might fe...
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Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships—both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this boo...
August 14, 2023
CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
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March 24, 2024
Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
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