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May 5, 2024
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Welcome to this Exciting Collaboration!
Greetings TKG Club members. CNM4US welcomes you to the site!
ThisKindaGirl will be offering its members lifestyle dating features via CNM4US.
CNM4US provides social media and dating features for the lifestyle community. Think a mashup between facebook and match.com but for swingers.
ThisKindaGirl will make their exclusive content available on their new private group TKG - Premium on CNM4US. ThisKindaGirl will continue to make their exclusivie conten...
April 14, 2024
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ThisKindaGirl on CNM4US
Many of you already know ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay. She's a well known vodcaster in the Lifestyle Community. She provides Lifestyle Coaching Services for couples and singles. If you are new to the Lifestyle community and need some help getting oriented or getting your bearings, you should contact ThisKindaGirl for some Lifestyle Coaching. CNM4US strongly recommends ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay, as a Lifestyle Coach.
New to the Lifestyle and need some help getting oriented...
March 14, 2024
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When attending a swingers party, lifestyle club, or any event that is along the lines of getting naked and freaky with others, its best to have some idea into what’s appropriate and what’s not. Proper Swinger Club Etiquette is something that should never be overlooked.
Being respectful, considerate and playing safely whilst still being sexy are things that should be all taken into account. Before I attended my first swingers party, I searched online, hoping to find any information that would he...
March 14, 2024
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RECONNECTING AFTER SWINGING
Aftercare is a term we usually associate with BDSM relationships, where the submissive partner is cared for by the dominant partner, as they transition from their roles as submissive and dominant back to Jane and Pete from Croydon. Aftercare, or reconnecting, is crucial and should never be ignored. I believe so strongly about the importance of reconnecting after swinging, that I am going to dedicate a whole post to this intimate ritual act. So as always, slip into so...
March 14, 2024
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Male Insecurities And Swinging- Help! I Can’t Get Hard! Recently, I received a question from one of my male followers, who wanted to ask for my thoughts on male sexual performance, and how did I feel about it when a guy loses his erection during a swingers party? Could I share any insight into how men could deal with this and how does it make women feel? Was there a right or wrong way to deal with it? Is there any ‘Erectile Disfunction Etiquette’ that should be followed?
There’s more to it than...
March 14, 2024
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You have been chatting with another couple online, and perhaps you have had a swinger first date where you guys have discussed your expectations, limits and kinks. You have all gotten to know one another, and you like what you see! It’s only natural that you then want to meet up and turn all your fantasies into realities!
Here are a few of my top tips for swinging with another couple:
It would be best if you established where it is acceptable to orgasm before you orgasm! You also should ask...
March 14, 2024
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Can I enjoy swinging if I am naturally shy?
Can I let you into a secret? Lean close, and I’ll whisper it in your ear.
I’m naturally a shy introvert!
Really?! I can hear you asking really?! This girl with all the savvy swinger know-how and the smart mouth is shy? Yep! I’m afraid so!
But have I let this shyness hold me back from swinging? No! Have I learnt to overcome my shyness and have a great time when swapping partners? yes!
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March 14, 2024
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Different Types Of Swingers we all have our own ideas as to what makes sex great! Sex is as unique as the person having it. What makes YOU tick is exclusive and reserved only for you. Yes, we may enjoy something similar to others or have shared fantasies and desires, however, the emotions, the sensations and the particular way that your body responds to sex is deeply personal. We may have wants and desires that we share, but only we know our true comfort levels.
There is no right or wrong way...
March 14, 2024
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Body Confidence When Swinging. Recently, I was discussing body confidence with one of my friends, A, who’s a single girl. Although A isn’t a swinger, she’s quite curious about the lifestyle and swinger scene, and I told her I’d take her with me to a club that was suited to her particular fetish when they reopen. She confided in me that although she is keen to attend, she doesn’t feel body positive and confident. I assured her she had nothing to worry about, but this got me thinking, and so, I gi...
February 28, 2024
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What Is Being A Swinger Like?
I have been in the swinger Lifestyle for over 10 years now, so I would like to think that I have a pretty solid understanding of what being in the scene is all about.
Over the last ten plus years, I have met both amazing swingers and awful ones. I have been in situations that have not gone as planned, met some really creepy individuals, had some underwhelming experiences, but on the whole, its been an absolute pleasure; after all, I’ve been doing it, and doing it ...
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August 14, 2023
CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
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March 24, 2024
Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
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