Welcome To CNM4US
Consensual Non-Monogamy for Us. A hybrid social media and dating site for the consensually non-monogamous. We are sex-positive, inclusive, and women oriented.
Sex Is Social For The Swinger Lifestyle
The best non-monogamous experiences begin with networking and community.
That's why we packed our member groups with so many features. Each one is like it's own website.
Chat with other members. Find communities that float your boat or create some of your own. Use the Events app to host gatherings.
Verification If You Want It
Verified Members have a blue checkmark by their name.
We use Veriff as our ID Verification partner. Veriff verifies IDs in over 230 countries and territories.
You are not required to Verify, but you'll attract more members and have more site privileges if you do.
Private Access Cards
Share your protected profile with anyone you choose. Yes, even people who aren't members of our site. Messages they leave for you are automatically forwarded to your email address.
Create access codes with or without expiration dates. Terminate access by deleting that code.
The Print Business Cards feature prints 8 Private Access Cards. All you need is scissors.
World Wide Members Map
Only Visible to our Members
Always centered on your postal code. Set an alternative location when traveling.
Blue PINs are Verfied members. Blue PINs with a gold center are featured members.
SwingRing Audio-to-Audio Connection
A great tool to help vet your play partners!
Our enterprise quality chat system also features an audio-to-audio connection, which we have dubbed the SwingRing phone. A silly name, we know, but memorable!
Match.com charges extra for their Match Phone. Our SwingRing comes standard.
Click the phone icon when you are chatting with someone. If they pickup, you can talk, just like a phone call, only you didn't have to give up your phone number.
Events
It's Evite for Swingers!
Invite people by member name or email address. Collect RSVPs.
Every Event has it's own social media feed, with text and images.
Many levels of privacy. Make events visible to the general public. Or, make events only your friends can see.
Limited Offer - Free Lifetime Memberships
During our launch phase, we are giving away free Lifetime Memberships. Yes, this is one of those rare events, where you can catch a company right as they launch and avoid subscription fees forever.
This offer is good only for Verified Members who complete their profile.
These free Lifetime Memberships will run out. So get yours while you still can!
What Is Up With That Home Page Image?
Henri Matisse - Le Bonheur de vivre, also called The Joy of Life. Painted between October 1905 and March 1906. Oil on canvas.
We were not inspired by home pages with stock photos of very sexy women and men. The swinger lifestyle community is about sex, yes, but also more than sex. It's about our mindset and the community we build with others that creates this joi de vivre.
If it doesn't work with our marketing effort, we might have to resort to those stock photos of sexy women and men.