April 21, 2025
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Is swinging just for couples?
Is swinging just for couples? In a word, no. Swinging is popular with single people, married couples, and new couples. It doesn’t matter how you identify or what type of relationship you are in; there are many ways to get involved when it comes to ethical non-monogamy. This post will uncover why swinging isn’t just for couples and why many people make the wrong assumption about who is involved in the swinger scene.
I will also be sharing how you can get invo...
April 10, 2025
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You're Not a Prize: Navigating the Swinger Scene as a Confident Single Woman
Stepping into the swinger world as a single woman can feel like entering a whole new universe. It's a mix of excitement, curiosity, and, let's be honest, a dash of trepidation. You might wonder, "How do I handle the attention? How do I set boundaries? How do I just… be myself?"
I've been there. I've seen it. And I'm here to tell you, you are not a prize to be won. You are a woman with agency, and you deserve to ...
March 31, 2025
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How To Tell Someone You Like Swinging
This article isn’t going to tell you how to talk to your partner about starting swinging. Neither is it going to advise you on how to have that conversation.
I’m not going to sugarcoat the truth, and I’m not going to tell you what you want to hear.
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March 18, 2025
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20 Top Tips To Attract Genuine Swingers To Your Swinger Dating Profile
Here are my TOP TIPS to help you attract genuine swingers:
Create an Authentic Profile. What do I mean by an authentic profile? Here, I am referring to a profile that truly represents who you are and what you are all about. Authentic profiles are 60% swinger information and 40% about you as a person. They include a good mixture of pictures and are not overly explicit. I explain this further in How to create a Great Swing...
March 18, 2025
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How To Write A Great Swinger Dating App Profile
Recently, I've been conversing with my coaching clients about swinger dating apps. These conversations have ranged from which to use to what to include to which to avoid, and I wanted to make a piece of content where I share my top tips on How To Write A Great Swinger Dating App Profile with you.
From what I've seen
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March 10, 2025
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Different Types Of ENM Dynamics. We all have our own ideas as to what makes sex great! Sex is as unique as the person having it. What makes YOU tick is exclusive and reserved only for you. Yes, we may enjoy something similar to others or have shared fantasies and desires, however, the emotions, the sensations and the particular way that your body responds to sex is deeply personal. We may have wants and desires that we share, but only we know our true comfort levels. There is no right or wrong w...
March 6, 2025
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Male Insecurities And Swinging- Help! I Can't Get Hard!
Recently, I received a question from one of my male followers, who wanted to ask for my thoughts on male sexual performance and how I deal with a situation where a guy loses his erection during a swinger party. Could I share any insight into how men could deal with this and how it makes women feel? Was there a right or wrong way to deal with it? Any 'Erectile Disfunction Etiquette' that should be followed?
First of all, it is important to...
March 3, 2025
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This is why you are struggling to meet people on swinger dating sites
You need to be an invested ‘online dater’.
Any form of online dating, ENM or not, requires a level of investment if you actually want to meet someone. If you simply want to hook up fu&k around or are not sure what you are looking for, lol, then this article isn’t for you. Look away now. But if you want to meet someone or some people with genuine intentions, i.e. swinger couples, then you will want to continue reading.
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February 24, 2025
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Here at Thiskindagirl, I want to bring you all the answers you are looking for. And how better to do this than a dedicated Swinger Lifestyle FAQ article? This article is a round-up of the most popular questions and topics that my followers send me on social media and by email.
Get clued up and swinger smart before you get completely confused about the lifestyle!
WHAT IS SWINGING?
Swinging is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where sexual inhibitions are extended past the committed relationship ...
February 17, 2025
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Can A Relationship Be Open For Only One Person?
The short answer is yes, but as with most things Non-Monogamy related, it isn’t as straightforward as that.
Yes, a relationship can be open for only one person if you have a solid foundation to draw from and rules and boundaries that you follow. But unless you have honest conversation and understanding from both parties, this type of relationship won’t work.
When I first started swinging, I was part of a couple, and my first experience and subse...