Different Types Of ENM Dynamics. We all have our own ideas as to what makes sex great! Sex is as unique as the person having it. What makes YOU tick is exclusive and reserved only for you. Yes, we may enjoy something similar to others or have shared fantasies and desires, however, the emotions, the sensations and the particular way that your body responds to sex is deeply personal. We may have wants and desires that we share, but only we know our true comfort levels. There is no right or wrong w...

Male Insecurities And Swinging- Help! I Can't Get Hard! Recently, I received a question from one of my male followers, who wanted to ask for my thoughts on male sexual performance and how I deal with a situation where a guy loses his erection during a swinger party. Could I share any insight into how men could deal with this and how it makes women feel? Was there a right or wrong way to deal with it? Any 'Erectile Disfunction Etiquette' that should be followed? First of all, it is important to...

This is why you are struggling to meet people on swinger dating sites You need to be an invested ‘online dater’. Any form of online dating, ENM or not, requires a level of investment if you actually want to meet someone. If you simply want to hook up fu&k around or are not sure what you are looking for, lol, then this article isn’t for you. Look away now. But if you want to meet someone or some people with genuine intentions, i.e. swinger couples, then you will want to continue reading. Somet...

Here at Thiskindagirl, I want to bring you all the answers you are looking for. And how better to do this than a dedicated Swinger Lifestyle FAQ article? This article is a round-up of the most popular questions and topics that my followers send me on social media and by email. Get clued up and swinger smart before you get completely confused about the lifestyle! WHAT IS SWINGING? Swinging is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where sexual inhibitions are extended past the committed relationship ...

Can A Relationship Be Open For Only One Person? The short answer is yes, but as with most things Non-Monogamy related, it isn’t as straightforward as that. Yes, a relationship can be open for only one person if you have a solid foundation to draw from and rules and boundaries that you follow. But unless you have honest conversation and understanding from both parties, this type of relationship won’t work. When I first started swinging, I was part of a couple, and my first experience and subse...

First Time At A Swingers Club Several of my followers requested this article on Instagram. So, being your swinger lifestyle guru, I felt it only fitting that I rise to the occasion. Although I have written articles about visiting a club for the first time, swinger club etiquette and dos and don’ts, what I haven’t written about, and what many of you are curious about, is what it is like walking into a club for the first time? How do you find the location of a club? And what can you expect to f...

What makes you an expert? But what makes you an expert? It's a fair question and one I've been asked a few times lately. The answer, like most things, is multifaceted. ...