July 13, 2024
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CNM4US Cruise Groups
One of our members, Alcouple47, mentioned that swingers who take vanilla cruises look for other swingers on those cruises.
I've done a little reading to confirm many postings in forums asking about how swingers can find other swingers on vanilla cruises. Not everyone will hang an upside-down pineapple or post a suggestive note on their door. What's a swinger at sea supposed to do?
CNM4US has an answer -- Cruise Groups
On request, CNM4US will create a Group for a specific...
July 13, 2024
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The CNM4US Affiliate Program
Affiliate Links
Any link to the site can be turned into an affiliate link by simply adding the following: ?affiliateID=yourMemberName
For example, Fred can create an affiliate link to the site like this.
https://www.cnm4us.com?affiliateID=Fred
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June 12, 2024
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CNM4US introduces the Private Access Pass
Have you ever wanted a business card for your lifestyle profile?
One of the biggest problems with Lifestyle websites is their fragmentation. If you meet someone interesting at a club or meet-n-greet, what are the chances that you are both on the same site? Slim!
Your online community does little to support your IRL (In Real Life) networking efforts. Giving someone your profile name only helps them if they subscribe to the same site—and mostly, they do...
May 29, 2024
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Images for Blog Posts or Events
CNM4US Blogs and Events have a place for an image. You can publish a blog or an event without an image, but they look a little naked.
Only some people are adept with digital media--like images. That's okay. If you want an image for your Blog or Event, just message Admin. We'll be happy to create one for you.
Describe the Image You Want
Do you want an illustration or a photograph?
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May 5, 2024
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CNM4US Notes
Finding the right matches in the lifestyle is a numbers game. Network, communicate, discuss. Wait, did we talk to those people already? I can't remember what they said.
Every profile has a Notes tab where you can leave notes for yourself.
Only you can see your notes. The profile you left it on cannot see your notes. Other members cannot see your notes. Only you can see your notes.
If there's something important you need to remember about a profile, leave a note for yourself to ...
May 5, 2024
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Welcome to this Exciting Collaboration!
Greetings TKG Club members. CNM4US welcomes you to the site!
ThisKindaGirl will be offering its members lifestyle dating features via CNM4US.
CNM4US provides social media and dating features for the lifestyle community. Think a mashup between facebook and match.com but for swingers.
ThisKindaGirl will make their exclusive content available on their new private group TKG - Premium on CNM4US. ThisKindaGirl will continue to make their exclusivie conten...
May 5, 2024
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Testimonials
Testimonials are a great way to meet new people.
We naturally seek the opinions of people we know and trust, and the lifestyle is no different.
That's why CNM4US provides a Testimonials feature on every Profile.
How do Testimonials Work?
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April 21, 2024
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The CNM4US Marketplace
Verified members can sell items in the Marketplace. We currently support payment service providers PayPal and Stripe. If you have an account with one of these PSPs, you can enter your PSP information in your CNM4US Account Settings and start selling items in the Marketplace.
What Can We Sell?
You can sell tangible or intangible items.
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April 20, 2024
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SwingRing and The 10-minute Touch Base Call
The lifestyle journey is fun, exciting, sexy .... and full of challenges. Along the way, you will encounter fakes, flakes, and people who are pondering their options but are still not ready to commit.
All of this can make for a lot of disappointing meetings. People fail to show up. People show up but don't look anything like their photos. One person of the couple is super excited to meet you and their partner appears confused about why you are meeti...
April 16, 2024
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The Need for Privacy
Some folks are totally open about their participation in the Lifestyle. They want to know what rings or jewelry they can wear to signal to other swingers. They are happy to wear a t-shirt with a giant upside-down pineapple. They don't care who knows. They have no fears.
Some people have good reasons to keep their lifestyle habits private. Their conservative family or church community might disown them. They might get fired. If they are active military personnel, they might...
April 16, 2024
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Your Data Belongs to You
There's a saying, "If the service is free, you are the product." Or more accurately, your data is the product.
Facebook is free, meaning you don't have to pay monthly with your credit card. So, how do they make money? They make money from selling, lending, or leasing YOUR DATA.
Facebook makes approximately $300 per year from each person's data or $25 monthly. That's why you get to use Facebook for "Free."
Because CNM4US earns its revenue from subscription services, i...
April 14, 2024
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ThisKindaGirl on CNM4US
Many of you already know ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay. She's a well known vodcaster in the Lifestyle Community. She provides Lifestyle Coaching Services for couples and singles. If you are new to the Lifestyle community and need some help getting oriented or getting your bearings, you should contact ThisKindaGirl for some Lifestyle Coaching. CNM4US strongly recommends ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay, as a Lifestyle Coach.
New to the Lifestyle and need some help getting oriented...
April 14, 2024
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Our Mission
CNM4US champions a positive and inclusive approach to Consensual Non-Monogamy, striving to make it a socially accepted and respected lifestyle choice. Our mission is to create a welcoming and supportive platform where individuals and couples can explore and engage in CNM safely and joyously. We emphasize the importance of consent, respect, and communication, providing our community with tools and resources to enhance their relationships and sexual health.
We cater to a diverse audi...
April 8, 2024
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Managing Your Group
Has your Meet-n-Greet or play party grown so big that you need tools to manage it? Have you thought that maybe Evite is not the right tool for managing Events and RSVPs? Maybe instead of Evite, you'd like a place where people can talk openly about sex and even post photos and establish profiles?
CNM4US Groups to the rescue!
Manage Events and RSVPS in your own CNM4US Group. Here are the details on events.
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April 8, 2024
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Managing Your Page
If you are a CNM related business or organization, contact us for your own Page on the site. You must be a CNM related businesses that is sex-positive, inclusive and women oriented are accepted.
If you have an established business with an established audience, with an established customer base, then we will provide you with free account, but you will still be required to go through the standard verification process.
Pages are for Businesses and Organizations
Pages are mean...
April 8, 2024
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Tips on Making Videos
Read the with Community Guidelines
CNM4US encourages nude and erotic vidoes. Subjects are allowed to be completely nude and touching each other. However, they are not allowed to be sexually explicit. See the Community Guidelines to understand the rules around videos.
Minor violations will get a warning with directions to take the video down. Major violations will get violators banned from the site.
General Production Tips
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March 24, 2024
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CNM4US is Open to the Public!
CNM4US is a
Social Media and Dating Site for the Consensually Non-Monogamous
Sex-positive
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March 24, 2024
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Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
Dating Site
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March 24, 2024
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CNM4US Events - Lifestyle Networking Made Easy
CNM4US members can view Events on the CNM4US worldwide Event Map. This map is always centered on the CNM4US member's Postal Code or Alternate Address (if they are traveling).
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March 24, 2024
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Dear Members, Post Your Suggestions Here
We are not perfect. We have not thought of everything. We have likely excluded some people, or at least failed to adequately include and represent them. Maybe we've framed something innappropriately, or even hurtfully.
And for our many shortcomings, we apologize!
We will read all suggestions. That's not a promise to act on every suggestion.
However, if suggestions are presented in a thoughtful, and well written manner, we are more likely to seriously ...
October 19, 2023
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Complete your Profile
Complete your profile and let people know it's active! We will delete the accounts of Unverified users who have yet to upload an avatar and cover image after 30 days.
Upload an Avatar Image
Upload a Cover Image
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October 17, 2023
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CNM4US Chat Features
CNM4US chat is based on CometChat, an enterprise chat solution. CometChat has a rich and reliable feature set. To activate the chat feature, click on the the burgundy chat icon in the bottom-right corner of your browser window.
Once opened, you will see icons at the bottom of your chat screen for
Chats: conservations already started with other members or groups. Click on a chat to pickup where you left off.
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October 11, 2023
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Criminal Background Checks: A Step Towards Safer Connections
Many dating sites are experimenting with some type of background check. We are all struggling with finding ways to bring more trust into online dating system.
Match.com invested over $1 million in Garbo--a non-invasive background check system. Because Garbo didn't ask too many questions about you, it also came up with so many false positives as to render it's assessments worthless. Match.com ended up abandoning their partnership with...
October 11, 2023
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Don't Yuk Someone's Yum
In a sex-positive environment, we want everyone to feel comfortable talking about the things that turn them on, as well as the things that don't. It's not necessary to put down someone else' preferences in order to communicate yours.
Claiming to only be talking about how you feel is not sufficient to get you off the hook for a Community Guidelines Violation.
Because this topic is somewhat fuzzy, I wanted to provide greater details regarding everyone's responsibility in...
October 10, 2023
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Featured Member—What's That?
See the yellow flag with the white diamond when you are searching for Members? That is the Featured Member flag. Featured Members also have yellow PINS on the Members Map.
How do you qualify to be Featured?
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September 27, 2023
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What Happens to the Videos You Post
Your Videos are only available on CNM4US. They are not published anywhere else.
We've taken care of all the technical details for you. Just upload your video and we will modify it so that everyone can watch it, no matter what kind of device they have and no matter what type of connection they have.
You must have a Verified account to upload videos.
CNM4US.com uses Mux to transcode and display/deliver your videos. We do not store your videos on our servers....
August 14, 2023
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CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
Education
Titilation
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August 14, 2023
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The Public Cannot See the Following
Any Member's Profile
The Photo or Video Sections
Closed or Secret Groups
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August 14, 2023
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Members Map
The Members Map is centered around your postal code, assuming you are logged in and have entered a postal code into your profile.
Click on each pin to see a popup of that member. Each pin matches a member profile below the map. If you click on the member image in the popup, you'll end up on that member's profile.
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August 14, 2023
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User Verification
CNM4US is joining the ranks of sites offering user verification.
Facebook
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